Helping to heal or Causing more hurt?

Heres a Story,

Boy meets Girl, They fell in love and got into a relationship. Things went pretty well for quite sometime untill one of them felt that the relationship was not what she was looking for. Moreover, Girl met someone else which made her feel different. She feel that maybe this new guy is the right one for her as opposed to her original choice.

Thus came the problem, she had to find a way to end her current relationship with Boy. But she does not want to be seen as the dumper, after all her Boy was a typical nice guy who has not done anything wrong to her before. So she came up with a plan, she will be as difficult and critical as possible. She will criticize his every move and show absolute no appreciation to whatever things he does for her. She hopes that this will cause him to dump her eventually. But no matter what she did, he still loved her as much. She felt that she had no choice but to initiate the break up eventually.

Boy seemed to take it rather well on the surface, told her that he was sad but he did not want to force her into anything that she did not want to be a part of. He told her he still wanted to be friends with her, and thus the beautiful relationship that he thought he had Ended.

Girl knew that Boy was just putting on a strong front. She knew that he is probably completely shattered inside. The worst part was that she felt she was the cause of all this. 'What should she do to make things better?' she thinks.... as she couldn't really think of a good way to handle this, she decided that the best way perhaps was to just fade away from the persons life well 'Out of Sight Out of Mind' No? And if through her dissapearing act he can bring himself to hate her for that, wouldn't that help him to let go? She feels that will be the best solutionand decided to just turn hostile.

Conclusion.... Well, there isn't a conclusion actually.... did the Boy managed to let go by bringing himself to hate her? Or did her actions (or lack of action) bring about more pain and sorrow for him? Really depends I guess... I came across a poem that was from a movie of the same title, i edited it a little though so it can apply to this context though. Well, this is for you...

10 things I hate about you

I hate the way you talk to me, and the way you cut your hair.

I hate the way you overreact, I hate it when you stare.

I hate your infatuation with shoes, and the way you read my mind.

I hate you so much it makes me sick,it even makes me rhyme.

I hate the way you’re always right, I hate it when you lie.

I hate it when you make me laugh,even worse when you make me cry.

I hate it when you’re not around, and the fact that you didn’t call.

But mostly I hate the way I don’t hate you, not even close…not even a little bit… not even at all.